By Dana Diamond
What do Tupperware consultants, Olympic hopefuls, entrepreneurs and unpublished writers all have in common?
They all sacrifice inordinate amounts of time, energy and (often) money on careers that may or may not reap any financial benefitsâ€¦even though they know the odds of are stacked against them.
My question isnâ€™t why they are insane enough to do this, but rather, why is it that three out of the four are considered careers, but the fourth is often mistaken for a hobby?
Now I know there are writers who donâ€™t care to be published. They are known as hobbyists. And I know there are entrepreneurs out there that are dabbling just for the fun of it; also hobbyists. And therein lies the key; â€œfor the fun of itâ€.
But if an unpublished writer is consistently writing and working toward their goal of a career as a published author, why would someone take the time to try and convince them it is a hobby?
Just because we love what we do and canâ€™t imagine doing anything else (even if it pays bubkis) doesnâ€™t mean it isnâ€™t work.
Of course, I recently debated this double standard, which is why itâ€™s on my mind. I bring it up to you because I know I canâ€™t be the only writer whoâ€™s had this conversation.
Hopefully, revealing the double standard for what it is will help other writers and their loved ones gain perspective.
Or maybe the dictionary, my all-time favorite book, can settle it:
n. pl. hobÂ·bies
An activity or interest pursued outside one’s regular occupation and engaged in
primarily for pleasure.
a) A chosen pursuit; a profession or occupation.
b) The general course or progression of one’s working life or one’s professional
achievements: an officer with a distinguished career; a teacher in the midst of
a long career.
2) A path or course, as of the sun
through the heavens.
3) Speed: â€œMy hasting days fly on with full careerâ€
1) Doing what one does as a permanent occupation or lifework: career diplomats; a
God, I love a good lexicon.
So, I ask you:
Do you consider the pursuit of a career as a published writer a hobby or a career?
What is with the double standard?
And most importantly, why would anyone go out of their way to inflict their â€œhobbyistâ€ opinions on a poor unsuspecting, unassuming, under-the-weather, unpublished writer?
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