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February 2, 2014 by in category Jann says . . . tagged as , , , ,



              


A couple of weeks ago, Barb and I decided to take in a movie, so off we went to our local theater. We grabbed some popcorn and found our seats. We like to sit in the middle about halfway up. There were only about eight people scattered around. I love it when it’s not crowded. The lights dimmed. When the camel came on the screen reminding us to turn off our phones (Barb loves that camel), we checked our phones and settled back to be taken on a wild ride of action and adventure with the new Jack Ryan movie.
Now, I know all of us have had the experience of people who talk and text during the previews, occasionally you might hear a tune playing. But usually you get through a movie with little disturbance. Well, that wasn’t to be the case for us this time.
The movie started and the guy sitting down a few rows and to the right obviously didn’t listen to the camel. He was texting. Since the theater wasn’t full, the light from his phone really reflected. I moved my head just a little so as not to be distracted, but the older guy sitting behind and to the right of him had full view. I felt really sorry for him, but figured Jerk would finish and turn it off. That didn’t happen. Over the next thirty or more minutes he texted constantly. How do you follow a movie if you are texting all the time? He was a texting ABUSER! The guy behind him got up and left, but came back to his seat. I figured he went to tell theater management to come in and tell Jerk to stop. But no one came. About ten minutes later, the older guy did what most people would do – he asked him to turn it off.
Well holy moly, all hell broke loose.
Jerk jumped up, called the old guy names and threatened him. Then he came at the guy still calling him names. A man sitting with the woman in front of us got up and tried to get Jerk to settle down. It didn’t work. One woman ran out to get help, another man sitting with his family also got up to help. Jerk came at the old guy again and this time threw punches. Barb and I called out for Jerk to stop. I tried to find my phone to call 911, but couldn’t get it turned on. My heart raced. I wondered what to do next. The two men who intervened got Jerk off the old guy. Jerk and one man left the theater; the old guy got up and went out the exit. Barb and I sat there wondering what was going to happen next. Meanwhile the movie had been rolling along and Jack Ryan was in a high speed car racing scene on the big screen.
The movie stopped playing, the manager arrived and we gave her the details of the altercation. We each received a free movie ticket and a full refund. They started the movie again, taking it back to the point when the disturbance began.
Later that day I thought about what happened and how texting has gotten out of control. How lucky we had been. We hear about the situations in movie theaters, texting and driving, and the lives destroyed by it. But then I thought about other times people text (myself included) and wondered how it affects others. You know what it’s like to be with family and friends having a conversation and they pick up their phone to either send or answer a text while you’re talking. Or at a meeting, have you ever wondered what the speaker is thinking when they look out over the audience and see people with their heads down tapping away on their phones? They could hope we’re tweeting about what a great speaker they are. Or do we consider if we’re annoying the people around us and being rude to the speaker?
All I know is that after my experience, I think twice now before I take my phone out to text in public and when I’m with my friends and family.
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When Last We Saw Our Intrepid Heroes

January 19, 2014 by in category Archives

Remember that? The voice over from Rocky and Bullwinkle, starting out another sly, clever cartoon? This might appeal only to what we call “Those of a certain age.” But that’s okay since we’re apparently an important demographic. I wonder if all of use realize how important the “Baby Boomers” are as a buying entity? And in particular I wonder how many other readers are not as enamored of cutesy young heroines as I am? That came out convoluted, didn’t it? Sorry, let me try again.
   We see so many heroines in their early twenties. Perky and cute, of course. With heroes in late twenties to mid thirties, so they’re allowed some maturity though they don’t always act that way. But way too many publisher guidelines require a female lead to be early to mid twenties. Do you think this is because people want to put themselves in the place of the young people when they read? I don’t know about you, I wouldn’t relive my twenties for any inducement up to and including a dragon topiary on my front lawn.
   However, that’s just me. How do you feel about age limits on  your characters?
   Getting back to where I started before I so rudely interrupted myself, the title of this blog was used as a bridge and introduction to the next episode of “Moose and Squirrel.” Which would segue me into a brief where the heck have I been and why am I back? Kind of boring for everyone so I’ll just hit you with where I was in November and where I hope to be going from now. Like so many others I participated in NaNo, which I’ve done in the past with varying degrees of success. This year I got so much more from the event than just a lot of words on the page, and I’m going to share some of that with you.
   I’m remembering a Country song, something like “I’m a Winner” from back when I was in my younger years. Something about “however much I’m hurting the other guy is worse, which is what makes me a winner.” Ummm, here it is: WINNER Yep, as silly now as it was all those years ago
You’re no doubt wondering what this has to do with NaNo, that month of living for the written word. More formally known as National Novel Writing Month, the goal (win) is 50,000 words. Does that mean anyone who writes less than 50,000 is a loser? I saw this terrific meme on FaceBook of a heavy man running, slowly, with the caption of “still beats any couch potato” I’ve been looking for that picture but unfortunately my Google search brought up a lot of mean spirited fat mocking sites. Which is no doubt the subject of a future blog.
   So, winning at NaNo. This year I competed through a team. Starting with six of us, two dropped out immediately, one faded about halfway through. I made it to 39,000 words and stalled. The last two streaked past the finish line early and kept writing. A writer on the FaceBook NaNo page kept us apprised of her progress, achieving word count the second week. Naturally I wished her all the best but it was difficult to focus on my paltry 1,500 words per day in the face of her comet like progress.
   Who were the winners? On the surface, that unbelievably prolific author, and my two team mates won. I could say I lost. Except I got back into writing and I also built on a idea I’d had in the back of my mind ever since Bethany talked about the women’s shelter in California.Teach Me To Forget She mentioned an environmental expert, and at that time I knew I’d be writing her story.
    One day.
    Obviously November 2013 was the start of that day, but I didn’t get all the way to 50,000 words. Loser?
    My extremely clever niece got a good start on NaNo, I think made it halfway and couldn’t decide where she’d go from there. She has a really great story idea and she’s motivated. She even got in some 3,000 word days. Then she hit that wall, and couldn’t write more. Loser?
    We could discuss degrees of winning, but only one runner blasts through the finish line first. Everyone else is merely in the race somewhere. However, writing is not a race with only one winner. Every single person who made the effort to sign up for NaNo was a step or more above fellow writers who only thought about trying.
    One day.
    Even those who dropped off the team after less than a week accomplished something, if only the outline and story beat sheet suggested prior to starting NaNo.  Very possibly those who chose other commitments over finishing in the month continued to work on their story, albeit not at that frenetic pace demanded by the word commitment. Losers?
    So where is this rambling taking us? When it comes to matters of creativity, as long as we are creating, we are winning. Sometimes that creating comes slowly, as in a paragraph a day. Sometimes it floods out, drenching us in images almost too fast to capture them on a page. Creating something from essentially nothing since a writer’s tool of creation is the imagination.
    That makes all of us who deal with the voices in our head by writing down their stories…WINNERS

WINNER!!!

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Getting Organized in Digital Age: Mission Impossible? @LyndiLamont

January 16, 2014 by in category The Romance Journey by Linda Mclaughlin tagged as

Another January, another set of resolutions some of us will never keep. Is it futile?

I wish I knew the answer to that age-old question.  I suspect resolutions and/or yearly goals work for some people but not others. Or maybe they work some years but not others. There are organizing methods that work for some people, but not everyone. All I do know is that I have to try doing something different this year to make some sense out of my messed up schedule. That won’t eliminate the chaos in my creatively messy mind though.

In the interests of organization, I signed up for the current OCC/RWA online class Going the Distance: Time Management for the Writer taught by our own Kitty Bucholtz. The class has just started but I’m hopeful of learning new techniques to use my precious time more productively. Goal setting will be part of the process. I’ve had good luck with that technique before, when I’ve paid attention to my goals and taken steps to meet them. Goals somehow seem more serious than “New Year’s Resolutions” which have a bad track record, plus goals can be revised or abandoned in favor of something better. Once a New Year’s resolution is abandoned, it’s all over until the next year. Right?

Here’s a blog article by James Clear (recommended by Alina K. Field) that I found interesting:

Why Trying to Be Perfect Won’t Help You Achieve Your Goals (And What Will)

Rather than worrying about goals and resolutions he recommends focusing on repetitive behavior, i.e. creating habits that will keep you moving towards whatever it is you want to accomplish.

Author P. J. Sharon wrote a blog this week on sticking to your plan that you may find interesting.

Tough Love

I swear this was all easier in the 20thy century. Nowadays social media is such a distraction. I set out to read my email in the morning, but keep finding interesting links to click on, or something that cries out to be tweeted, and before I know it, I have seven or eight tabs open in Firefox and two hours have disappeared, never to be seen again.

In the cause of taming the social media monster, here are links to a couple of blog posts you may find helpful. Don’t be put off by the title of the first. It’s a pretty good beginner’s guide to Twitter, and I found some helpful ideas in it.

The Ultimate Twitter Guide to Crush Your Competition

Infographic: The Secrets of a Killer Blog Post

At the Marketing for Romance Writers blog, Erin Moore asks: Newbie World: Do I Really Need Social Media? Good advice for the new author.

Middle Grade author Chris Eboch on A Year of Success contains more links to older blog posts on the subject.

If anyone reading this post has any brilliant ideas or getting or staying organized, please let me know. Will you be setting goals? How did you do in 2013? I’d love to hear about your successes.

Hope to have some progress to share next month.

Linda McLaughlin / Lyndi Lamont

Linda McLaughlin grew up with a love of books and history, so it’s only natural she prefers writing historical romance. She loves transporting her readers into the past where her characters learn that, in the journey of life, love is the sweetest reward.

She also writes erotic romance under the name Lyndi Lamont, and is one half of the writing team of Lyn O’Farrell.

You can find her online at http://www.lindamclaughlin.com or http://www.lyndilamont.com.
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ART & SOUL

January 15, 2014 by in category Archives tagged as , , ,
 I want to be upfront: I borrowed that headline. I saw it in the Los Angeles Times this morning and it started me thinking about how we, as writers, view ourselves. Actually, that’s not quite correct. I’ve been thinking about this ever since I joined a discussion on LinkedIn. It went something like this.
Author #1:How do you title your novel?
Author #2: I like to use lots of words.
Author #3: I like titles that keep people guessing.
Author #4: I hate publishers. They always change my titles.
Author #5: Publishers have no soul. They aren’t creative.
Me: I disagree. Publishers are creative in a different way, a business way. We should appreciate that and learn from it.
While we write, immersing ourselves in our fictional character’s lives and worlds, we are being artistic and creative. When we come up for air, we need to be something else. We need to be publishers: clear-eyed, objective, and strategic.
If it weren’t for traditional publishers taking a chance on me, investing in my art, offering me a platform for the work of my soul, I wouldn’t have grown as a writer. I still have every rejection and acceptance letter I ever received because reading them reminds me of why I failed as much as why I succeeded. I can visualize every editorial letter that came in the mail (pages long and single spaced) which outlined where I could do better: style, grammar, character development, transitional efforts, titles, plot and story. I still remember meetings with sales reps, buyers, distributors and realizing that at every level there was effort and money being spent on my behalf in ways that were corporately creative. I also know that there were administrators doing research I could never tap into regarding an ever-changing marketplace.  Sure there were inequities.  Sure there were things I didn’t agree with. But my interaction with the publishers, more than any writing lesson, taught me the true art of bringing my work to an audience. 
Now that I’m indie, I wear a publisher’s hat. I can hire a freelance editor, a cover designer, and a formatter. I can even hire marketing experts to handle the last, critical part of the publishing puzzle. But if I do not understand and appreciate the creativity of the input these people provide me –  a title that will cut through the ever-growing clutter, a cover image that is arresting even though it appears as a thumbnail, interesting ways to communicate with the marketplace –  then my money is wasted. I will never be able to truly control my own brand. 

So, when your book is finished and it’s time to publish, take off the rose colored glasses of an author and get out your publisher’s magnifying glass to assess the marketability of your work. Ask yourself “what would a publisher do?”. I promise, if you answer that question honestly you will find avenues for success you never dreamed. In my book, that last step qualifies as creativity. That is the Art & Soul of  the business of publishing.
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2014: Why haven’t you finished that book yet? by Jina Bacarr

January 11, 2014 by in category Archives tagged as , , , , , , , , , , , , , , ,
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The clock is ticking…

Tick tock…tick tock…

How many words did you write today? Why haven’t you finish that book yet?

We all torment ourselves with these phrases and then blame our lack of productivity on…

Twitter…Facebook…Instagram…kids…family…the Internet…not enough coffee.

It’s all about focus.

And finding that beautiful space in our minds where we can run free and create and write and write and write.

It can be as elusive as a butterfly.

But well worth going after, no matter what gets in our way.

According to experts, interruptions can put a big damper on our concentration and it can take about ten minutes to get the writing flowing again.

So the next time an email pops into your Inbox, or the phone rings, or someone yells, “Hey, Mom, are you busy?” know that it’s not your fault if it takes a few minutes to get back into the moment.

Then let the butterfly in your mind run free…

Best,
Jina

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In case you missed it, here is an 11-minute video with an excerpt from Chapter One in my novella, “A Soldier’s Italian Christmas” available on Amazon Kindle.

You can be sure I had a lot of interruptions putting this together, but I finished it!


A Soldier’s Italian Christmas: Excerpt from Chapter One from Jina Bacarr on Vimeo.

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